Hi, I’m
Robyn Wahlgast
A certified Relationship Expert & Dating Coach
who offers practical advice, and genuine insights
to help people improve their dating experiences
and foster authentic connections.
Discover more of my personalized advice on my blog New Direction Dating Advice, where I share in-depth insights and experiences that can empower you on your journey towards a meaningful romantic connection. Explore a variety of topics that resonate with the challenges and joys of forming a lasting bond.
With a Ph.D. in Relationship Psychology from Stanford and 15 years of hands-on experience, I’ve had the privilege of guiding over 2,000 individuals and couples toward more fulfilling relationships. Certified by the International Relationship Coaching Association (IRCA), my evidence-based approach combines research, empathy, and personalized strategies to ensure every relationship reaches its fullest potential.
- Ph.D. in Relationship Psychology, the University of California.
- 15+ Years of professional coaching experience.
- 550+ satisfied clients.
- Certified by the International Relationship Coaching Association.
- Founder of NewDirectionDating website, providing a dating advices for women.
- Featured expert on digital platforms DatingCoachesNYC and OutlookIndia.
My coaching philosophy is anchored on empathy, open communication, and evidence-based strategies. I believe that with the right guidance, everyone can navigate through relationship hurdles and attain a fulfilling love life. Through a blend of personalized coaching and actionable plans, I empower you to build and nurture meaningful relationships.
Robyn Wahlgast
My advice on helping people navigate relationships and dating
The journey through relationships and dating is a personal voyage, filled with both unique and common challenges. Over the past decade, I’ve accumulated a wealth of insights which can be shared to help others traverse these paths.
Personal relationship advice
- Understanding Desires: I advise individuals to reflect on their desires and expectations in relationships. It’s beneficial to jot down core values, preferences, and deal-breakers to gain clarity on what they truly seek.
- Communication Skills: I share the importance of effective communication, offering tips on active listening, expressing oneself clearly, and understanding the verbal and non-verbal cues of others.
- Self-Awareness Journey: I suggest engaging in self-reflection and self-awareness activities to understand personal patterns, behaviors, and responses in relationships.
Advice for couples
- Conflict Resolution: I share techniques on how to address and resolve conflicts in a respectful and understanding manner, emphasizing staying calm, listening actively, and finding compromises.
- Deepening Understanding: I advise couples to dedicate time to understanding each other’s values, aspirations, and viewpoints, fostering a deeper connection and appreciation.
- Supportive Environment: I stress the importance of creating a supportive and loving environment where both partners feel safe to express themselves and grow together.
Dating advice
- Overcoming Dating Anxiety: I offer tips on managing anxiety, such as breathing exercises, mindfulness practices, and focusing on positive experiences.
- Authentic Self-Presentation: I advise individuals to remain authentic in their interactions, share their true interests, and express their values openly.
- Effective Dating Strategies: I share strategies on how to find compatible partners by aligning interests, values, and communication styles, emphasizing patience and an open mind while navigating the dating landscape.
Clients’ testimonials
I have had the privilege of guiding many individuals and couples on their relationship journeys. Here’s what some of them have to say:
Robyn’s guidance was our beacon during stormy times. Her strategies enhanced our communication, and we now resolve conflicts in a mature, understanding manner. We’ve rediscovered the joy in our relationship.
Sarah & John
The dating world was a maze until I found Robyn. Her coaching equipped me with the self-assurance and skills to find a partner who complements me perfectly. The journey has been transformative and empowering.
Emily
Robyn’s expertise brought clarity and direction to my dating life. Her empathetic approach, combined with practical strategies, has helped me find a relationship that I cherish. The journey has been enlightening and filled with personal growth.
Michael
Before-and-after couple’s success stories
Our daily interactions became battlegrounds of disagreements and misunderstandings. We felt ourselves drifting apart, with a widening chasm between us that we didn’t know how to bridge. The joy and understanding that once defined our relationship seemed to be slipping through our fingers.
Our journey with Robyn was nothing short of transformative. Through her insightful coaching, we learned how to communicate with each other effectively, to understand and respect each other’s viewpoints. It was like learning the language of love all over again. The warmth and closeness we once shared bloomed anew, reigniting the flame that felt like it had been dwindling.
Anna & Mark’s story
The dating scene for me was a storm of anxiety and disappointment. Each failed date took a chip off my self-esteem, and I was on the brink of resigning myself to a life of solitude, believing that a meaningful connection was beyond my reach.
Then came Robyn, whose expertise was like a lighthouse in the stormy sea of dating. Through her guidance, I discovered a well of self-confidence I didn’t know I possessed. Her coaching equipped me with the tools to navigate the dating world and eventually led me to a partner who shares my core values. With each passing day, our bond blossoms, and I find myself falling deeper into a love I had once thought was unattainable.
Tom’s story